The Triathlon Mental Performance Podcast

Lessons from Kona: How to Stay Composed When Everything Goes Wrong

Neil Edge Season 4 Episode 1

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Welcome to another episode of The Triathlon Mental Performance Podcast.

This weekend’s Ironman World Championships reminded us that even the strongest, most prepared athletes can face moments that test everything they’ve built. 

The heat, the wind, the current, no plan can fully prepare you for the unpredictable. But how you respond when the unexpected happens determines whether the day unravels or becomes one of growth.

In this episode, I unpack how to process setbacks and build the mental structure to handle them before they happen. 

You’ll learn what happens in the brain when things go wrong, from the amygdala’s alarm to the prefrontal cortex going offline, and how to train your system to recover logic and composure under pressure. 

I’ll introduce the Prefrontal Pause, a simple physiological method to interrupt panic and bring clarity back online, along with the Bounce-Back Loop, a framework to turn emotional setbacks into learning and identity growth.

We’ll explore:

  • Why the brain’s first response to chaos isn’t logic, it’s protection
  • How to train your physiological calm so you can think under stress
  • The Prefrontal Pause: the science-backed way to regain control mid-race
  • The Bounce-Back Loop: how to process setbacks and rebuild stronger
  • Why true mental toughness means adaptability, not blind persistence

Whether you’re preparing for your first Ironman or racing for a Kona slot, this episode will help you build the resilience, structure, and awareness to stay deliberate when plans fall apart.

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Thanks for listening, and remember, mental toughness isn’t about avoiding struggle.
It’s about staying calm, intelligent, and adaptable when it arrives.

Neil

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